Unhealed trauma makes you tolerate sh*t you don't deserve and hold onto people you shouldn't because you don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve access to your life โ no matter how much you love them.
healing is so fucking frustrating. it's like you're doing well, you're forgiving, you're letting shit go and you're working on processing through it all, then boom traumatic shit enters your mind and you have to start all the way over processing those feelings
